Phil,

Well written, the truth often offends people, especially those that love to bleat but would never pull an organiser to one side and tell him or her their issues.

You are right, forums are a difficult place.

The 2 posts above mine prove that, in fact, I find them quite embaressing to the DSC, especially knowing both people are far more intelligent than either of those posts gives them credit for.

Best of luck with resolving all your issues, I hope it all pans out for you and Debbie.

Dibs