Sorry for being flippant Jody & hope you get sorted soon. Best to get it to a dealer/ Ducati specialist and get it checked over.
My ex-wife kicked in the door panel on my Merc 190E that I owned at the time I said I was off with my blonde, 6'...........etc, etc
I deducted the repair bill from the divorce settlement and actually got away with it
Haven't you got any compromising pictures of her that you can threaten her with & stick those up on the web. There's plenty of PhotoShop experts on here who can add a bit of poetic licence.
Failing that................pay a few bob, get a solicitor to write a letter to her claiming all the damages, repair bill, solicitors cost etc...............failing payment of which you will take her to court with all incremental costs to be recovered. Scare her into paying up and take a settlement.
BTW what did you do to make her so mad to do this?