I'm thinking of Eclipse and thier 'Flex' packages
http://www.eclipse.net.uk/ It is for home use with just the one PC, altho it may be beneficial to use my wife's laptop on the broadband conneciton from time to time. Don't think remote access to my home PC will be necessary. I'm really just after faster uploads and downloads and not getting kicked off my conneciton every two hours like I do on my dialup ISP.