At the end of the day ,"What you put in is what you take out" much like a bank account. First , You can only put in what you can afford, take too much out and not only do you upset the balance but the Missus give you a slapping, not that Im agin to a good slapping you understand. I have been down the road of raising a family and understand how difficult it can be to get "time out" some times and have a bit of fun with the lads. Often I think I would love to be out ever week end but I know that is just not fair or feasable. So "what you can do" has a limit to some degree. So long as people feel they are part of the team to me thats all that is reguired, team or regional spirit has shown to reap benefits as to the turn out at events . I think that is the one key I would confess to be trying to achieve. So far it been a uphill struggle trying to get those in the BHC to order
Ill just have to work a little harder. 4D