see here for list of what SHOULD be done...
http://www.motorapido.co.uk/ducati%20servicing.php More to the point : buying a new Ducati should be a good, fun and enjoyable experience, you should be looking forward to picking it up not worrying if you are being stitched up. Go to a good dealer, you MUST be able to trust who you are buying it off.
I have had a nasty experience with a dealer who ignored my warranty claim (on a Yam by the way) and thinking back on it, I knew it would happen and was stupid to buy from them.
best of luck.