Hi Jools Having faced much trauma myself over recent years, I know only too well how you're feeling. And like Rockhopper, I read posts such as your own but never respond. In the main, this is because my own sadness isn't buried too deeply, and I almost fear to scratch its surface. Far from being apathetic, sometimes the silent majority are silent only because they feel the more deeply. ATB to you and your loved ones. Keep yer chin up. Steve |