Blinking heck Jools, that is strong stuff.
I agree with a lot that you have just posted and can see your point which you have put across intelligently and on many parts correctly.
Dont take this the wrong way but are you sure that you wanted to share the actual details of your wifes incident?
I do feel for her as it must have been and probably still is a terrible one. I can see now why it may have impacted or in some way be connected with what she is going through now.
Fingers crossed she will be better one day?
DC.
