I first went pillion on an ancient black/gold ducati (probably about a '77) when I was 6 (calm rider), then on a BMW K100 when I was 11 (nutter), then on a CB1000 when I was 12 (it fell over
).
At no point do I remember feeling like I could fall off, despite the K100 rider getting it cranked right over, or even like what I was doing was dangerous.
I've a stong belief that people should be encouraged onto bikes as early as possible, either as pillions or riders. And, as much as it hurts, falling off is part of gaining some respect for what you're doing and the potential damage to other road users. If all car drivers were forced to ride bikes for a few months the roads would be a damn sight safer, regardless of whether they never rode a bike again.
On the other hand a parents' grief must be insurmountable, so it's no surprise to her someone having a go at the (possible) cause.
It's just a crying shame that ever-increasing legislation is just removing peoples need to think for themselves, leaving us with the lobotomised masses getting their kicks out of motorway on-ramps and t-boning bikers on roundabouts....
I think I need a beer!
Have a great weekend all.
Ali