If you were really bothered, you could and would have forwarded it to one of the moderators, they don't need to police 'private' conversations if the users don't want them looked at IMO.
If you were really bothered, you could and would have forwarded it to one of the moderators, they don't need to police 'private' conversations if the users don't want them looked at IMO.
i Did Luce... within about 3 seconds of reading it myself
i Did Luce... within about 3 seconds of reading it myself
Exactly, so I really don't see any valid reason for mods to need to look at them. We're all grown ups, though it might not always seem so, and are perfectly capable of letting the right people know when action should be taken regarding 'private' matters
Can a member of the webteam or MT please point out which part of the forum rules allows the viewing of PMs and whether this is open to the webteam only or all of the MT.
Please can you also provide guidance on the methods used for checking PM content. Is this a random check across all forum members, a specific check against specific memebers or are all PMs checked?
Can a member of the webteam or MT please point out which part of the forum rules allows the viewing of PMs and whether this is open to the webteam only or all of the MT.
Please can you also provide guidance on the methods used for checking PM content. Is this a random check across all forum members, a specific check against specific memebers or are all PMs checked?
i had an exceptionally violent, abusive and hurtful PM from [a member] last week, i was insulted, verbally abused and ridiculed....
the MT were aware of this by the time i reported it to them.... i don't see this as a bad thing.
Yes it bloody is. Weeksy your comment is rubbish. If I am rude with you by PM, then forward the said PM to whoever may take action. But you should not tolerate anyone having a look at it without you prior consentment.