OMG!!!
I just saw this now.
I'm truly sorry for what happend to you.
I had an accident in November 2004 and also broke my femur (besides my right fist) and they also inserted a stell bar inside the femur from the hip to the knee.
Just last moday i did the last surgery to take the stell bar off and i'm still having to use cruthes.
It seems that unfortunatly we suffered similar injuries, so if you need any help or want to talk about it, feel free to u2u me.
Hang in there and heal up quickly