I've got the loom side connector, if that is what you want. It was cut from a damaged loom, so has sufficient wire on it to connect up. I don't want anything for it as it's been in my box of bits for years. Any use to you?
Just had a look at the connector. I have worked out how the pins are removed. On one side of the connector is a single oblong that is white, on the other, two smaller oblongs that are white. Just push in the single oblong with a screwdriver. Pull the wire and it comes out. Simples.