Ok Ruth...
First rule is..."Do your own thing". Dont get drawn into the colour debate you'll never win!
Second rule is "Ask for help/advice when you NEED it".
You can't possibly take it all in at once...
And as for bling...Carbon???
It's glorified and more expensive Fibre glass and epoxy resin...It's meant to be sprayed but some people on here feel the need to "show it off" coz they've paid alot of money.
I wouldn't touch those "staus symbol" thingies with a barge pole...
Now...? Where did I put my Prada slingbacks?
AND By the way...Welcome to the board...'bout time we had some more Ladees on the board...
(AND no comments from you lot!)