| on my 996S harness the sidestand connector is on the right side of the bike, it exits from the harness at the same point as the oil pressure switch connector. And unlike the later bikes it only has two wires although it is a 3 pin connector. I just shorted the two wires together.
I think they may be one Grey one and one white one.
did you mean 996SPS or 998S
My 996S harness has 2 relays in the headlamp holder and the 998BP harness only has one relay but has a extra relay by the battery | 
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