If you're son is off to independence you did a good job...! The thing is now Bob, it is a new stage for you both...Less mess in the house...not so much ferrying around in the car etc... What will you do with your life now...You have a new opening. DO SOMETHING WITH IT!...Do not wait for him to come home with his washing...YOU still have a life! Yes our kids are our future...but YOU still have one. Lisax |